Spiders. Why does it have to be spiders.
So Chloe has found a new friend. Outside our office window is this huge, man-eating size garden spider. She's fascinated by it. The past couple mornings she has jumped out of bed (ok, AFTER Barry or I come lift her out) and made a beeline for the office to check on her friend.
Understand this thing is huge. Mom has this monster phobia of anything that has more legs than four legs. In short, I hate any kind of insect and specially arachnids--can't even say I like pretty little butterflies much when it comes down to touching things. Scared to death of them all. BUT, I try to hide my fears from Chloe. I don't want her to be afraid of things just because Mom or her Dad is. I want her to develope her own fears and phobias sans our interferrence.
But why, oh why does the girl have to like spiders? She likes to sit in my drafting table chair by the window and just watch the thing. Granted, she does like snakes. That I can handle. No problem there. But spiders???
In fairness, it IS a pretty spider as far as things that give me the heebee jeebee's go. It's black with lots of pretty yellow markings on it. And if it weren't the fact that this thing could swallow a small child, or bite your finger off with it's huge venem dripping mandibles, I could deal with it.
It really is BIG!
Later that morning, we went and played at the park. Chloe sat in the swing for a long time. There was another family from the neighborhood that was there with there 3 daughters. One was almost Chloe's age...their girl was turning 2 in November.
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Chloe sat next to her on the swing and kept saying "hi, friend! Hi friend!" Of course the little girl didn't say anything back--being a mere average mortal ; o ) and having a binky stuck in her mouth. But it's always fun to watch Chloe interact with people.
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We practised our facial expressions at the part. Here she's doing "silly".
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